{"id":22089,"date":"2022-07-20T06:00:00","date_gmt":"2022-07-20T05:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/staging.omnesmag.com\/?p=22089"},"modified":"2022-09-08T13:08:03","modified_gmt":"2022-09-08T12:08:03","slug":"decalogue-for-preparation-for-marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.omnesmag.com\/en\/foco\/decalogo-para-la-preparacion-al-matrimonio\/","title":{"rendered":"Decalogue for marriage preparation"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.omnesmag.com\/articulos\/the-ten-commandments-of-marriage-preparation\/\">Translation of the article into English<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Once you have read and studied in depth the <a href=\"https:\/\/press.vatican.va\/content\/salastampa\/it\/bollettino\/pubblico\/2022\/06\/15\/0459\/00940.html\"><em>Catechumenal Itineraries for Married Life<\/em><\/a>From its reading, it is possible to extract a decalogue of key ideas from this document of which you can find an extensive summary <a href=\"https:\/\/www.omnesmag.com\/recursos\/la-preparacion-adecuada-para-el-matrimonio-cristiano\">here<\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">1- The <strong>Purpose<\/strong> of preparation for marriage in the Church is the <strong>conjugal sanctity:<\/strong> to form marriages capable of <strong>evangelize<\/strong> our society.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">2- The <strong>grace<\/strong> of the sacrament leads the spouses to take the <strong>awareness of the efficacious presence of Christ<\/strong> in their communion of married life and love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">3- The <strong>greatness of vocation<\/strong> of Christian spouses requires a serious and prolonged ecclesial work, with a formative approach <strong>attractive, all-encompassing, deep and intense.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">4- The proper way to gestate a Christian marriage is a \"...\".<strong>catechumenate\".<\/strong> <strong>or itinerary of faith,<\/strong> in which the future spouses will accept the divine gift and <strong>assume the<\/strong> <strong>protagonism<\/strong> of its preparation process, <strong>guided and accompanied<\/strong> by the pastors and by other members of the Church who have been duly prepared.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">5- Training for mature spousal love presupposes a <strong>continuous training process<\/strong>, <strong>at various stages<\/strong>from the preparation <strong>remote<\/strong> in childhood and youth (in the family, parish, school, movements and ecclesial groups), up to the <strong>next and immediate<\/strong> to the celebration of the sacrament (of at least one year's duration), which will be extended after contracting the sacrament in the <strong>married life<\/strong> (especially in the early years).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">6- The Church must <strong>instruct<\/strong> <strong>and be close<\/strong> the bride and groom on their way to marriage, with a style that is <strong>positive, encouraging and testimonial<\/strong> from <strong>trust and dialogue<\/strong> sincere; it is also necessary to <strong>prayer<\/strong> and community, with the appropriate sacramental celebration of the sacrament of <strong>Eucharist<\/strong> and the <strong>Reconciliation<\/strong>. In this way, future spouses will be able to welcome the Gospel of marriage and the family with hope and live it within the ecclesial community.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">7- The good news of Christian marriage is to be transmitted in a <strong>gradual process of purification and growth<\/strong>with mercy and prudence. In this way, the candidates to the married state will be able to assimilate the blessing of the sacrament, overcoming with the opportune aids the possible <strong>shortcomings and limitations<\/strong> and improving couple's communication.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">8- It must be ensured that the bride and groom understand the meaning, purposes, characteristics and benefits of the <strong>marriage according to God's plan<\/strong> of creation and redemption. They will then be able to choose it in a conscious and mature manner, in an exercise of <strong>reflection and<\/strong> <strong>discernment<\/strong>avoiding the cultural confusions of some widespread erroneous ideologies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">9- The affective-sexual education of the heart by means of the human and Christian virtue of the <strong>chastity, ally of love<\/strong>as well as the reasoned explanation of the doctrine of the <strong>responsible procreation,<\/strong> will allow us to understand and assume with joy the beauty of the meaning of the human body in its masculinity and femininity as a call to interpersonal communion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">10- Adequate and permanent ecclesiastical preparation and accompaniment is <strong>guarantee of the fulfillment of the divine promise<\/strong> inscribed in the conjugal vocation. In this way, the conjugal covenant can bear fruit in the fruitful joy of Christian homes, for the glory of God and the extension of his kingdom in our world.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Traducci\u00f3n del art\u00edculo al ingl\u00e9s Una vez le\u00eddo y profundizado sobre los Itinerarios catecumenales para la vida matrimonial, se puede entresacar, de su lectura, un dec\u00e1logo de ideas clave de este documento del que puedes encontrar un amplio resumen aqu\u00ed. 1- La finalidad de la preparaci\u00f3n al matrimonio en la Iglesia es la santidad conyugal: [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":34,"featured_media":22090,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"pmpro_default_level":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[551,548],"tags":[661,720,599,16,644],"class_list":["post-22089","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-familia","category-foco","tag-amor","tag-amoris-laetitia","tag-familia","tag-jovenes","tag-matrimonio","pmpro-has-access"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/staging.omnesmag.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22089","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/staging.omnesmag.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/staging.omnesmag.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/staging.omnesmag.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/34"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/staging.omnesmag.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22089"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/staging.omnesmag.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22089\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/staging.omnesmag.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/22090"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/staging.omnesmag.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22089"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/staging.omnesmag.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22089"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/staging.omnesmag.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22089"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}